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Anxious Kids, Anxious Parents: 7 Ways to Stop the Worry Cycle and Raise Courageous and Independent Children

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With anxiety at epidemic levels among our children, Anxious Kids, Anxious Parents offers a contrarian yet effective approach to help children and teens push through their fears, worries, and phobias to ultimately become more resilient, independent, and happy.

How do you manage a child who gets stomachaches every school morning, who refuses after-school activities, or who is trapped in the bathroom with compulsive washing? Children like these put a palpable strain on frustrated, helpless parents and teachers. And there is no escaping the problem: One in every five kids suffers from a diagnosable anxiety disorder.

Unfortunately, when parents or professionals offer help in traditional ways, they unknowingly reinforce a child’s worry and avoidance. From their success with hundreds of organizations, schools, and families, Reid Wilson, PhD, and Lynn Lyons, LICSW, share their unconventional approach of stepping into uncertainty in a way that is currently unfamiliar but infinitely successful. Using current research and contemporary examples, the book exposes the most common anxiety-enhancing patterns—including reassurance, accommodation, avoidance, and poor problem solving—and offers a concrete plan with 7 key principles that foster change. And, since new research reveals how anxious parents typically make for anxious children, the book offers exercises and techniques to change both the children’s and the parental patterns of thinking and behaving.

This book challenges our basic instincts about how to help fearful kids and will serve as the antidote for an anxious nation of kids and their parents.

5 reviews for Anxious Kids, Anxious Parents: 7 Ways to Stop the Worry Cycle and Raise Courageous and Independent Children

  1. J.
    This book saved the day for us. Wr are unfortunately anxious parents, this day. Our children are beginning to show possible signs of feeling the same....More
    This book saved the day for us. Wr are unfortunately anxious parents, this day. Our children are beginning to show possible signs of feeling the same. We wanted to correct these patterns before too long. This book was essential in addressing issues. Highly recommended.
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    Molly
    I'm a licensed professional counselor, and I frequently recommend this book to parents of children I am seeing who have anxiety. It helps parents know...More
    I'm a licensed professional counselor, and I frequently recommend this book to parents of children I am seeing who have anxiety. It helps parents know how to help, but also see the role they may be playing in exacerbating their child's anxiety.
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    Michelle Carey
    Our 3 year old was having a lot of anxiety in social situations. Although the age this book targets is for older children, I felt that the principles ...More
    Our 3 year old was having a lot of anxiety in social situations. Although the age this book targets is for older children, I felt that the principles and exercises can still be applied no matter what age. It helped me recognize my own tendencies to perpetuate his anxiety. After a month we already see major improvements. I feel like my parenting is more empowering now and he definitely has more confidence which makes my heart so happy. I’m glad we started to address this early. So thankful for this book!
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    M. Laudenslager
    These strategies can be used for successful ‘treatment’ of anxiety in children and adults in a relatively short period of time. It just so happens the...More
    These strategies can be used for successful ‘treatment’ of anxiety in children and adults in a relatively short period of time. It just so happens they are also a road map for a successful approach to an independent, competent and happy life.
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    Dr. in Chicago
    I've recently started seeing kids for anxiety in my psychotherapy practice, and I have a 9 year old who has anxiety. GET THIS BOOK. I became intereste...More
    I've recently started seeing kids for anxiety in my psychotherapy practice, and I have a 9 year old who has anxiety. GET THIS BOOK. I became interested when I participated in an anxiety certification in which Lynn Lyons presented. She's insightful, honest, and offers clear guidance about how to help parents and kids work together to overcome anxiety. There's no judgement in the book, just identifying likely scenarios (that I recognized in my own experience) and ways to move into managing anxiety from high-jacking your lives.
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